How much Indian do you have in your family Boo? I mean besides the Indian weave in your head?

Sometimes I don't understand my people.

I got into a heated discussion with a woman the other day about her wanting to get a Blond weave. I told her that I thought it was a bad idea.

First, I do not like weaves. I think it is a way of Black women conforming to what this European based society tells them  is beautiful instead of them realizing that they are beautiful without all the  extra bullshit ass bullshit "enhancements."

Second, I do not understand why a Black woman would want Blond hair.

I mean really?

Who the hell told them that Blond hair was beautiful? I admit on some White women it looks good..but that is on WHITE women.
What is wrong with your natural hair? Who told you that your natural god given kinky, thick hair was not good enough?

Third, Did I mention that I don't like weaves? Why would any sane woman want to get another woman's hair sewn, glued or tied to their head? Covering up their real shit?

I don't get it.

Black women are some of the most beautiful women on the face of the earth.
Why do they feel the need to conform to what this society tells them is beautiful, when it goes against everything that God made them to be?

Me.. I love women with Afros', Braids, natural hair that has been permed or even the short "Cesar" do's.

But weaves? It just seems so fake to me. It is like you are lying to me. If you lie about something as trivial as your hair..what else will you lie about?

I don't understand it.. But I guess it is what it is.

Blond weaves, Red weaves, short weaves or just weave ass weaves..get on my damned nerves.

But there are a lot of things I see my people doing that I just don't get.

Like going to a nice Italian restaurant and asking the server if they have any fried chicken on the menu.

Really?

Where is that shit normal at?

I mean outside of Detroit that is.

Signs of me turning into my Father

I tried to watch the Grammy's the other night and I could not finish it.

The Grammy's, American Music Awards, MTV Music Awards, BET  Awards  Soul Train Awards...just don't do it for me anymore. I used to love all the awards shows. I used to watch videos by the hour and then sit out on the stoop in front of my apartment building with my crew and talk about them for hours more.

Now I could care less who wins what and half of these kids winning these awards, I have no idea who the bloody hell they are.

Today's music just don't...Well I ain't feeling it. I still listen to Hip-Hop a little..mainly when I'm Channel surfing in the ride or when I'm working out...but other than that, naaa.

I do not fuck with R&B at all because...well Chris Brown won R&B artist of the year...so what does that tell you?

The good R&B... Anthony Hamilton, Letice, Music Soul Child, Kem, India Arie and groups like them never get any air play. These cats make good music but I guess it ain't about  making "good"music now-adays. R&B has turned into the "let me hit it all night and then fuck your friends too" music.. So naaa. Ain't gonna be able to do it.

I listen to more Rock, Pop and Reggae now than I do traditional "Black music". I'm not saying that this genre of music is any better, but right now I am so sick of "Black Music" that it is a much welcome change.

What happened to "let's work together" or "I love you" or "I only want to be with you" or "you are my lady" music? Why is it all "in the club", "meet me in the bathroom stall", "let me see that ass bounce", "I want to be a babies mama or side chick" music?

I cannot tell you the last time I watched a video. I do not even know what channel BET, MTV or VH1 comes on.

I'm getting old man.

Shit.


PPS...
I guess I should shout out a RIP to Whitney Houston..
There will never be a voice like hers again. My heartfelt condolences go out to her family. Especially her daughter.
But....

We all know that crack heads don't live long.

What?

Yeah I said it.

You sir, are a bytch-ass nukka

I have a problem with dudes...men. BOYS that don't support their kids and disrespect the mother(s) of their kids.
Especially dudes...men...BOYS that cry that bullshit about not having a father in their own lives. It seems to me if you had a bitch for a daddy, then you would do every thing you had to do to not be a bitch yourself. But that is just me.

In my opinion, kids are the greatest gift that God can give a man. There is nothing that feels better than coming home from work and the first thing that you see are your kids running towards you screaming "Daddy!!" at the top of their lungs. There is no better feeling than being on the sidelines or in an audience watching your kids fulfill something that you never got the chance to do.

In case you are wondering what I am talking about... let me get to the point...

Terrell Owens has four kids by 4 different mothers. 1 of the kids he has never seen and the other kids well..you get the picture. All of his babies mothers he says were mistakes. He said that they were just "multiple one night stands". He is blaming the mothers of his kids for them demanding support. He is complaining about being broke and jobless and of course that is not his fault either.

Now I used to like this motherfucker. I thought he was an outstanding receiver with the 50-11 teams he has played for. I thought he was just misunderstood. I thought that he was just a passionate competitor who wanted to win.

But now?

Terrell Owens aka TO... you are a motherfucking bitch.

How in the hot-ass Texas hell can you abandon your kids when every fucking interview you have ever given you talk about not having a father in your life? You don't have to have a relationship with the mother(s) of your kids, but you do need to have one with your kids. No one made you go all raw dog in a woman you had no intention of wifeing up. No one made you go back for seconds. You made that decision and now that you are no longer wanted in the NFL and you got cheated by people that you hired, now the women that were good enough for you to fuck,(multiple times mind you) are now gold-digging one night stands?

Really?

I hate Black Boys like you. I gave you a pass when it came out that you did not like Black women. But this bullshit?

Man fuck you.

pps..
If I sound kinda heated...well shit... I am. I take fatherhood very seriously.
And I am also pissed that my own wife still thinks the world of this bastard. Even though she has friends and family that are going through hell with bitch ass niggas just like this.  I don't understand how women can continue to support motherfuckers like this and then out the same mouth they use to praise these no-good, selfish ass, insecure ass bitches, they have the nerve to say, "all Black men are dogs. I don't know what happened to my brothers. They are all turning to White women."
Really?
You think?