Saturday, July 18, 2015

Don't call it a comeback


I'm back bytches!!!!!

I thought that I was done with this blogging shit..but it keeps calling me. I thought I could stay away, but I have a lot to say and this is the best way I know to vent and let loose. So I hope I still have a few followers left since I have taken a 2 year hiatus...I am surprised I remembered my password to get back in this bitch. LOL.



A lot has happened in my life since I shared my thoughts. I am going through a divorce, I have been promoted at work and I have traveled to 4 different countries. My life has been full of surprises, letdowns, fuckups and sadness. It has also been full of love, support and understanding. People have left my life either by the window or the stairs...(old heads will get that reference)and people have come into my life to replace the ones that left. My perspective has changed a lot over the past 2 years and I am more focused and determined.

But anyway..I am back to share my view on whatever subject tickles my interest.
 I hope ya'll are ready..

Lets see how long I stay around this time.

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Going Fishing

I am debating on whether I am going to give up my little ole blog. I don't have the time to attend to it the way I used to. Since I'm back in the military full time now...that consumes the majority of my time. I am constantly on the go. And if I'm not in another country doing Lord knows what..I am in my office until 7 or 8 at night. And also since I have a family....I have to spend those rare moments making sure that they remember who I am.
So I apologize for my absence....but as of right now, it is what it is. I haven't made up my mind as to whether I'm going to stop blogging all together...but I am definitely going on a little sabbatical for a while.

I will keep all my faithful readers informed of my ultimate decision.

So I will c-ya when I c-ya.

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Black don't crack

I was told the other day that I do not look my age.
I was told that I look at least 10 years younger than I am.

Of course I took that as a compliment;since no one in their right mind wants to look old. I'm not old..I turned 40 a couple of months back..but no one wants to look 40. Hell no one wants to look 30.

People that tell me I look good for my age pisses me off..'I look good for my age'..really? Bytch, I look good for any age....


 Anyways... back on topic...

 Most of the people that tell me this are White Folks.
 I even had a dude ask me what kind of facial cream I use to keep my skin so smooth.
 I have also been complimented on my skin tone. By White Folks women.

They act like that it is so damn amazing that my skin is so...well...cared for. I take pride in how I look. Which to me is common sense.
But I have to admit, most of the people that compliment me, are my age and they look it...if not older.
So I take what they say with a grain of salt.
I come from a long line of good genes. My Moms is 58 and looks 40..my Pops (before he died) was 57 and looked 40..My Grams is 81 and looks 60..My Big Pops is 85 and looks 60 and so on and so forth.

So to me looking "young" is normal.

 Matter of fact...I don't know any Black people that look their age.
We all look younger than we are. Unless a dummy is on that shit or they drink like whales.

From what I notice..most White folks try too damn hard to look younger than they are.
From wearing too much damn make-up...to laying out roasting in the damn sun..to botox and plastic surgery... to dressing younger than they should.

I don't get it. Take care of yourself...and yourself will take care of you..

That's how I see it anyways.

 And don't hate on me and mine because we 'look good for our age'.

That's just what that is Bytches!!