Monday, July 6, 2009

And then I heard....


Four more Black Kids are going to be raised without their Father due to senseless violence and 'should have known better' bullshit .

The whole world knows by now that Steve Mcnair was killed, along with his twenty year old Jump-Off.

He was shot FO times (FO=FOUR, for those of you out there that are not familiar with Negro Speak), 2 head shots and 2 body shots, with his Twenty year old Jump-off taking one in her dome.

When I first heard that he was killed I thought 'Damn. When are these famous rich fools gonna learn to stay out of them damn Shake Clubs?'

And then I heard that he was shot in a condo he rented with another dude, and I thought, 'Damn. Please don't tell me that this fool was one of those DOWN LOW niggas!'

And then I heard that he was found shot along with a young woman and I thought, 'Damn. I bet she was a White Girl. That's how them fools do'

And then I heard that her name was Shamma Shamma something and I thought, 'Damn that fool's wife done found out he had a side piece and she just lost her damn mind!'

And then I heard that the fuzz believe that this might be a murder suicide and I thought 'Damn. WTF was this nigga thinking? A TWENTY year old waitress that he meet at DAVE and BUSTERS? He put his whole life in limbo, along with his FO kids for a waitress that was making $6 an hour? Damn! Was it that good?'

And then I heard about all the goodies he was giving her, An Escalade, clothes, a crib, trips to the Caribbean, promises that he knew he was not going to keep and I thought 'Damn. This fool is how old again? 36,or 37, some shit like that? And he is already going through a mid-life crisis? Really?'

After getting treated like his bottom bitch, and then finding out that she was instead a side chick, a 2 in the morning, after the club closes, last resort bitch, it is no surprise that she got all Sniper on his ass.

I am not calling this poor woman out of her name, because she is just as much, if not more a victim in this case, because Brother Steve should have known never to fuck with a woman's emotions, especially a Twenty year old inexperienced woman, I am just saying that she should have stayed in her lane.

Common sense, her girlfriends, her Pastor, Priest, Budda or even the $15 fortune teller lady should have told her that this dude was not going to leave his wife of 13years for her.

I guess with her only being Twenty Years Old, she never heard the phrase "It's cheaper to keep her." If a woman starts off the race as a side chick, then she should know that she will finish the race as a side chick.

But, (if this indeed was a murder suicide)as we see from this tragic chain of events, some women forget their place and venture outside of their assigned areas.

And his dumb ass should have not been prowling College campuses auditioning for the Next great Piece of Ass, season 10.

The dude should have been thinking about his family, his FO kids,his reputation of being a "stand-up" do no wrong guy, and the woman sitting in that mansion with the keys to the safe filled with all his millions.

But again, we see from this tragic chain of events, that most men think with their dick instead of with their brain. Or maybe most men have their brain in their dicks.

I don't know.

But in any case, Four more Black Kids are going to be raised without their Father due to senseless violence and 'should have known better' bullshit.

And the beat goes on.

5 comments: said...

Hello there!

A lesson to all brothas out there who want to play ....

You WILL pay one way or another...

Nakia, a Social Butterfly said...

Well alright, quite an interesting & true take from a black man's pov! Thanks yet again!

Anonymous said...

That statement I hope he wasnt one of those "fool down low brothas" almost sounded like hatred or negativity to gay people! i hope the author does treat gay people that way!

MoMo said...

hey, its been a while. nice post by the way. yea I feel sorry for the kids

Walt Bennett said...

I wish I understood how McNair "had it coming."

I mean, if Brett Favre had been gunned down in cold blood, would he have had it coming?

I don't know. And I really don't know why so many people are so quick to condemn. I swear that the internet age has robbed us of the ability to contemplate before we evocate.

And finally, of what relevance is it what the deceased had in his system? That he was "twice the legal limit" for what, lying on a couch?

Episodes like this make it hard for me to see the best in my fellow humans.