Monday, December 28, 2009

Is it a mistake if you meant to do it?






My  wife has a friend that is pregnant by a sorry ass dude.

She is having complcations with the pregnancy and is always calling my wife crying about how her baby daddy ain't shit.

Now I feel for the woman because she is having a very hard pregnancy and she should not be forced to handle this on her own.
But....

I don't feel bad for her situation.

My wife told me that she started messing with this dude while he was with another chick. She caught this dude with other chicks besides her and his "main" girl.

But she got pregnant by him anyway. She knew this dude wasn't shit, but she thought she could convince him to just be with her.

Now that she is pregnant, the dude has lost what little interest he had in her. She was crying to my wife last night about how he did not call her on Christmas. I told my wife to not tell me anymore about this stupid woman and her stupid problems.
And here's why......

She knew that this dude was not shit, but she had unprotected sex with him anyway. She knew that this dude was fucking her and 50-leven other chicks but she got pregnant by him anyway. She knew all this because he met HER on the creep and she has caught him creeping on HER.

So why should I care about her dumb ass when it is obvious that she did exactly what she wanted to do?

She knew that this little boy was fucked up, but she chose to make him the father of her child. I do not know if she planned on getting knocked up, but with all the knowledge she had about how this guy was, for her not to insist on using some protection was, well in my opinion, stupid.

She made her choices, so why is she crying now?

She knew, but she did it anyway.

So who is the dummy?

I feel for the baby, because it is the only innocent party here.

But my wife's friend?

She is just a stupid woman who thought that she could mold a boy into the man that she thought she needed.
She made her choices, so she needs to deal with them and don't cry about the choices SHE made.

Women should stop blaming MEN for the actions of BOYS.


Am I wrong for feeling like this?

I don't think so, but am sure that I will hear different.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Liar, Liar pants on Fire


Everyone has someone that they hate to work with.

It does not matter what kind of work you do, how much you love or hate what you do or how good or bad your organization is. There is always someone that you just do not want to see at anytime during the year, let alone on a daily basis.

There is a dude that works with me that I cannot stand. He is a chronic liar. He got one of my partners fired behind his lies. But he floats around like he is the shit. He is a lazy fuck that uses all his vacation days or sick time like they don't run out. If he has 25 minutes of time, he uses it.

One day he is a Jazz muscian, the next day he is a retired Special Ops dude. The following day he could be a Navy Seal medic. Any and everything that can be done, this dude has done it.

It makes me sick. Literally. Everytime I see this dude, I want to punch him in his lying ass mouth.

But because I needs my paper I have to grin and bear his shit.

I want to tell this cat so bad to shut the fuck up with his bullshit, but I don't. This morning he had the nerve to tell me that he used to work in a forensics lab like CSI. Alls I could do was be like, 'For real'? and I walked away from him.
What The Fuck?

I am starting to feel like a damn punk, because I usually speak my mind when it comes to shit like this.

But I know me.... If I say something it is going to be like, ' Man who do you think believes your lying ass? I have been listening to your bullshit for the past 7 damn years and I ain't trying to hear it no more. Ya understand me? You needs to get a damn life dude and leave the fantasy shit to Halo 3. If I hear one more lie come out your damn mouth, I am going to shove this damn clip board you are always carrying around up your ass sideways.'

That would not be good for my future plans with the company. Like I said, I needs my paper.

So I continue to be like 'For Real?'

And I walk away.

I feel like such a Bitch.


For Real.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Bah HumBug!! Merry New Year and all that Jazz


I hate this time of year. I hate the "holiday" season. I think it is fake and too commercialized. I think that it has nothing to do with God or Jesus. None of the holidays are in the bible and none of them started out as "christian" days. They were all started as celebrations to different Gods other than the "christian" God.

That is why I do not do Christmas, Easter or Halloween. The only Holiday I can get with is Thanksgiving. Even though I understand that this is a day that celebrates the time when the pilgrims swindled the Native American's out of their land and knowledge of that land, I can still get with being thankful for the blessings that God has bestowed upon you. I believe that you should give thanks everyday that you wake up breathing, but the way Thanksgiving has evolved into just taking time out to appreciate all the blessings in your life, is alright with me.

But the other holiday's.... Naaa. I can't fuck with them.


No where in the Bible does it say that we are supposed to celebrate the day Jesus was born. No where in the Bible does it say what day Jesus was born. If it is in there somewhere, somebody please shoot me an email so I can read it for myself. What makes a sane parent tell his kids that a fat White Man with flying reindeer has somehow delivered all the gifts under the tree in the middle of the night Christmas Eve, when 9 times out of 10 those same kids were with you when you brought those gifts at Wal-Mart?
Naaa.... I can't fuck with that.

And Easter... Come on Son. What the hell does a rabbit laying eggs have to do with Jesus being resurrected?
Why would I lie to my kids like that?

And Halloween?

Man please. Why would I allow my kids to celebrate a day that is geared towards everything EVIL and DEMONIC? How in the hot ass hell does dressing up as a vampire or a serial killer represent anything "christian?"

It is all bullshit to me.

This is why I do not consider myself a Christian. How can I associate myself with something that embraces and endorses shit that I am opposed to?

None of this shit is Christ-Like.

And why does this time of year everyone all of a sudden starts to think of the people that have been struggling the whole year? And after the holiday has come and gone will the ONE meal on Christmas or the TOYS for HOMELESS kids help them out the rest of the year?

Isn't Christians supposed to be helpful to the needy all year instead of one damn day out of the year?

It is hypocritical to me and I can't fuck with it.
If I see you need help, I will help you until you don't need it, or until I see that you are using me, which ever comes first.
The time of year doesn't even factor into the equation. One meal will not last all year. Toys do not help kids with no where to play with them.
 But this shit here? This "Holiday" season, " Be cheerful and Ho Ho Ho" shit?
Naaa...
I ain't gonna be able to do it.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Give me yo lunch money Punk!!


I was just over at the FIELD NEGRO'S site and the topic and the comments by some of Field's regular visitors made me want to come here and talk about it. The topic was about some Asian students getting bullied by some Black students in an all Black school.


Why the hell is this news?

Kids bully other kids. That is what kids do. Kids that appear different,weaker or smaller than the kids bullying are usually the ones getting wedgies or thrown in lockers.
Kids that are in the MINORITY are also easy targets. (I.E. Gay's, Lesbians, Red Haired kids, short kids, mentally challenged kids,poor kids, fat kids and just plain kid kids.)


So why does this have to be about Black Thugs beating up on poor defenseless Asian mathmatic genuises?
If it were a school in China Town and the 1 or 2 Blacks that attended there got beat up, would it be anything different?

I am sure that race was a factor in the bullying, but in my opinion, this was a case of kids doing what kids do.

Some of Fields commenter's are straight racist. Some are educated Negro's that have not been around other Negro's in a while, so they have the same attitude as some of the racist white people. Some of the commenters are Negro's that like to blame everything evil in the world on White People.

There is a mixture of everybody over at Field's.

A lot of the comments were based soley on the race of the attackers and that of the victims. Which is relavent, but it is a small part of what is really going on.

Most of the comments were about Black Thugs and ghetto's, rap music, babies having babies, Blacks not wanting education, Black's being prone to violence, parents on welfare, Slavery and so on and so on.

This does not surprise me at all because some if not all of the above mentioned things could have played a role in those Asian kids getting picked on.

But...


To generalize that these are the sole reasons that those students got beat down is just straight ignorant.
If it were White Students getting beat down by Asian students would any of the above be mentioned?
They got singled out because they were different and because there was not a lot of them.

I am not condoning the actions of these bullies, because bullying is wrong.

But kids will be kids.

There has been bullies in school ever sense there was school.

It is amazing to me how some people want to put Grown Folk's fuck-ups on kids that are still learning how to be Grown Folks.

Getting bullied in school is a right of passage that all of us have been through. Either it makes you a stronger person or it leaves you a bitter old person that justifies your hatred towards anyone that looks like the bullys, instead of admitting to yourself that you were(are) too damn weak to protect yourself and demand respect.

So needless to say I do not agree with most of the Field's regular visitors.
But ya'll know the old saying, "Opinion's are like assholes, we all have one."

And there are a lot of Assholes that comment over at Field's spot.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Men Cheat Down, Women Cheat Up


The idea from this post was inspired by the recent events that the Choblasian, or whatever the hell Tiger Woods thinks he is, has been through the past week.

Personally I could give a hot damn about Tiger Woo, his wife or his jumpoff(s).

All this shows me is the hypocrisy of the American Main Stream Media.

The Media puts these celebrities up on high and proclaim them to be role models for  kids of all backgrounds and nationalities and then when they find out that the celebrity is just like everyone else, they tear into them like the old Star Jones would at a CICI'S Pizza buffet.

In my opinion, this is what America gets for putting their faith and hope in an imperfect MAN.

But anyways I digress....
On with the post....

Question....

Why in the hot ass hell do men always cheat with the most broke ass woman that opens their legs to them?

In my case, If I decided to go out and explore the nether regions of another woman, she would have to have just as much as I do, if not more. I am not saying that I am gutter-ass rich or nothing, but I have been blessed with a pretty good life. So If I were to cheat on the woman that has been with me for the past 12 years who has had to pay my car note for me or give me gas money to get to work or even give me money for food when my account was in the negative, then the cheatee would have to have something that can compare to what I already have.

Example.... Everyone gets caught. Everyone. So if my cheating ass was ever exposed I would need a place to stay because Mrs. Red would most definitely kick me out of the house. I would need a job because Mrs Red would most likely come to my job and clown. I would need a car because Mrs. Red would probably fuck up the one I am driving now. I would need some cash because Mrs Red would for sure drain the little bit of money I have accumulated. I would also need bail because if Mrs Red did all these things, I would be the next "innocent" Black Man incarcerated by the "man".

So I would have to have someone to go to that could provide all of these things.
Could a waitress at DAVE AND BUSTER'S do it?
Could a NEW YORK PARTY GIRL do it?

What about the cutee that works at the neighborhood Starbucks?
Or the absolutely beautiful woman I met last week in the club that has 3 kids by 3 different men?

I do not think they could. I have gotten a little bit spoiled lately. I have a lot of needs. So in order for me to jeopardize what I have, there has got to be something better on the table than a nut. Excuse my french, but I can jack off and get that.

So why do these dumb-ass rich assholes cheat with the first thing that opens their legs for them?

I don't understand it.

You will never see a successful woman give up the goods to the dude working the drive through window at Wendy's.

But don't be surprised if you hear this time next week about another "role model" that has got caught with his dick in his delivery girl from Dominoes.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

The way things were....



Question......

If the "Founding Fathers" were to skip through time to the year of our lord 2009, how do you think they would react to today's world?

Would they be appalled with the way things are now, or would they be proud of the way their ancestor's have "evolved"?

Would they be upset with the way or "leaders" have twisted the constitution they wrote to fit whatever they want it to fit?

How do you think they would react to all the crime and violence that plagues our world now?

And I have to ask.....

How would they feel about the 3/5ths of a person now running the "company" they invented?

I would love to see the faces of Thomas Jefferson, George Washington, Ben Franklin and the others if they were to leap frog through time and see that the slaves they left on their plantations, are now are in charge of the Plantations they just left.

Would they accept the changes, are would they denounce them?

Would they accept the slaves rise to some sort of acceptance or would they continue with their backwards ass way of thinking?

I think that they would denounce the changes and they would not accept that their slaves are now higher up on the food chain than them.

I think that they would revert back to the "master" and "slave" role and call some poor brother or sister out of their name and either get killed or beat down.

I think that they would denounce the way politicians have twisted and corrupted their design for a better country and try to change it back to the way they meant it to be.

I don't think they would adapt to well with the way things are now.

What do you think?

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Daddy, why is my hair curly and Suzy's straight? What is wrong with my hair?


Is preparing your kids to have a better life than you had worth giving up your (and their)  identity and heritage?

This is a deep question huh?

This topic came up today at work. I know a dude that was married to a White Woman, he is recently divorced. He has 2 kids from this woman. He lives in a predominantly White community in a predominantly white county. His kids do not have any interaction with any kids that look like them or with any kids who come from a mixed racial background. So basically, in my opinion, his kids are going to grow up only knowing one side of their background, their mother's.

The guy I was talking to today is an older Puerto Rican dude. He is married to a white woman and has a daughter in college. He also raised his daughter away from people that looked like her. According to him, his daughter has never had a Puerto Rican boyfriend and she does not speak Spanish. He said he moved out to the hills so that his daughter would have a chance to be productive in today's society. He said that the only way that his daughter would succeed in today's world is if he took her totally out of a minority setting and placed her in a setting with more "productive(white) folks".

I totally disagree with both of these gentlemen  and here's why.

These children are growing up with a view of the world that is not centered on reality. I understand that in today's "post racial" world, there are not supposed to be any color barriers.

Really?

These kids are growing up with an attitude that their color don't matter because they are not being exposed to people that look like them.

They are growing up naive.

Now don't get me wrong. I want to be seen as a MAN, before I am seen as a BLACK MAN. I do not judge people because of their skin color, but I still SEE their skin color.

I SEE color. Yeah I said it. And I know that people see mine. But I understand that my color or my friends brown color or anyone white does not dictate who we are.

Our actions do.

In my opinion where a person grows up does not matter, as long as the Parents do what Parents are supposed to do. Parents dictate how their kids are going to turn out. A strong family background with a strong sense of heritage and family traditions are what a child needs to be productive in any society.


This notion that minorities have to move out to the hills with the white folks just so their kids will have a shot of achieving the "American Dream", is bullshit.

They are forgetting that White People have the same problems that we do. Neighborhoods are only as good as the people living in them.
Just because Tyrone and Tameka or Jose and Consuela buy a million dollar house out in Fairy Never Land and send their kids to a private boarding school, does not guarantee  that their kids will be productive.

A rich Black man will still be called a nigga by a "productive" White person if that "productive" White person feels threatened.
A rich Puerto Rican will still be called a wetback by that same White Person if that White person feels that said Puerto Rican is getting "uppidity".

It is the American way.
I don't like it, but I understand.

My two friends do not. I believe that they have the best of intentions for their kids because they are good men and parents.

But....

Denying their children the chance to be associated with kids that look like them,comb their hair like them and whose parents look like them is just plain stupid and selfish.

In order for a society to be really color blind, every color has to be represented.
In my opinion these kids are going to turn out not understanding who and what they are.

But these dudes have a right to raise their families the way they want to.

That is also the American way.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Not having any type of power is bad.... But having too much is worse

President Obama is scheduled to give his big speech on why he is sending more troops into Afghanistan tonight.

Why are Democrats upset with this?

The President never said that he would end the war in Afghanistan. He said that he would end the war in Iraq. So far he is keeping his promise. He IS withdrawing the troops in Iraq. He said from the jump that Afghanistan was a war that should have been fought and he said that the previous administration DROPPED THE BALL OVER THERE. He even sent 21,000 troops over there within a few short months of him taking office.

So what is the fuss about?
What has he lied about?

Why do people (Black People) think that this man is any thing different from the thousands of Black politicians that we have seen in this country before him?


He is a POLITICIAN.  That just so happens to be Black.


Politicians lie, cheat and steal to get what they want.

What they want is POWER.

Now don't get me wrong, I am proud of our President.
Very Proud.
But I understand that he is an Politician.

I also understand that he has a certain few people that he must placate in order to keep the title of President. And that certain few people does not include your man Dirty Red or anyone that takes the time to read my thoughts.

It is what it is.
I might not like it, but I understand.

President Obama is not the savior of Black People. He is the President of the UNITED States, not the mayor of St. Louis, D.C. or Atlanta.
And if we are to judge him by past Black Politicians, who have done nothing but exploit the people that gave them their power, then I might be so bold to say he is the savior.

I mean think about it for a minute.....

Every Black Congressman/woman in congress, all 50 something of them, represent the worst Districts in the country as far as education, crime, unemployment and poverty goes.


Every 2 years we vote the same do nothing ass Negros into the jobs that they have failed miserably in for decades.

Every 2 years we hear the same tired bullshit about what they PLAN on doing for our communities.


We never see these people until their contract is set to expire and then we get the same 'ole bullshit that we have been getting, or either some Preacher gets in the mix talking about how they will change what has failed to be changed in  how ever many years now that we have been allowed to vote, with the help of Jesus, the Holy Spirit and the other 10 rich White People that finance their campaigns.

Power is more important to these Negros than the overall welfare of the people that have been paying them for decades.

And we as Black People continue to fall for the okie-doke . We listen to their tired rhetoric of HOPE and CHANGE, all the while HOPING that they mean it this time.

But Black Politicians are not the only people of power up in our nations capitol. It was founded by White Men, and White Men still have the majority. Black politicians have just learned and adapted to the ways of their masters.

But as far as our President goes.....

At least he is trying to keep the promises he made in all those "feel good" ass speeches he gave during the time when we all thought that it would be a cold day in hell before White People would hand over the keys to their beloved White Mansion on 1600 Penn Ave.

That is a change.

The rest of  our Black "leadership" are only seen when a White person kills a Black person in one of their districts.

But in all honesty, we get what we pay for.