Well the answer is very simple......
Reason number 2059.....
We cheat because women allow it.
Now before you all get all bent out of shape about that comment, let me explain......
What I mean is this. A man cannot cheat by himself. If the woman being cheated with did not put herself in a position to be the other woman, then who can he cheat with?
The exception to this rule is the man that lies to the other woman.
'Baby I ain't married. You are the only one for me.'
'We are going through problems right now. I don't know how much longer I can take her bullshit.'
'I am separated. My divorce is pending.'
'I am only with her because of my kids'
Any man that outright denies his family is a punk. It is wrong in every sense to have a side piece anyway, but to straight out lie about having a family......Like I said..... PUNK. BITCH.ASS.BITCH.
I mean think about it.....
If I were to meet a woman out somewhere and we became involved in a conversation and I told her I was married, then all topics about hooking up in the bathroom should be nixed at the start. But if I tell Mrs So and So I was married, happily married that is.... and she still insists on the meeting in the ladies room, then what is a man to do?
I know, I know what ya'll are thinking...... 'Nigga you needs to be thinking about your family, not some hot in the ass slut.'
And you would be right in thinking this. Like I said cheating is wrong and I am not writing this post to condone this type of selfish behavior. I am just writing down one of the many reasons why we men sometimes stray.
If a woman would cut the conversation short whenever the man tells her he has a family or she gets that "feeling" that he is full of shit, then I would not be inclined to write this.
Woman fail to realize that they have all the power when it comes to sex.
All. The. Power.
And most times a woman knows if the man is lying or not.
It is called WOMAN'S INTUITION.
But women don't listen to themselves and they end up getting hurt behind some sorry, bitch made ass dude that is only thinking about himself; because most men will stick their dicks in some tree bark if they knew that they could get a quick nut and most importantly..... get away with it.
It is all up to the woman to tell a man to get the hell on if she finds out that he has a family.
And it is up to the wife to know her man. A woman knows if her man is out boinking other holes besides hers. Like I said, WOMAN'S INTUITION.
We all know that we men are stupid when it comes to shit like this. We always end up telling on ourselves in some kinda way.
So my advice to the women reading this is.....
Listen to yourself.
Tell that fine nigga that works in accounting to go home to his wife. Don't even put yourself in a situation to listen to his lies.
And last but not least LISTEN. TO. YOURSELF....
If these rules are followed, then the only women that a man would get caught with would be Rosy Palm and her 5 sisters.