I ask this because a White dude told me that yesterday. And in his defense he named off several Black men we work with that don't date Black women either.
What kind of response was I supposed to give?
I, for one
Black women, White women, Asian women, Hispanic women and if I ever saw any..Indian women.
There is nothing on this Green and Blue ball we live on that is more beautiful than a woman.
Of course I have my preference, but that does not change the fact that I Love women.
And I have always assumed that all straight men felt the same way I do. Apparently I was wrong.
But there was something in this dudes tone that told me he meant something else.
Instead of hearing 'I am not attracted to Black women'; alls I heard was 'I don't really like niggers. I am only talking to you because we work together and I need to keep my job.. If we didn't and I saw you out in the street on fire, I wouldn't piss on you to put you out.'
Now maybe my racial sensitivity meter is a little too sensitive; but that is the first thing that popped in my head.
I could be wrong....but.....
I don't think so.
I just don't see how any man can say that they are not attracted to a particular type of woman. We all have our preferences but...really?
I mean I prefer women with nice titties and nice asses..But if I saw a woman with small titties and a long back, there would still be something about her that I would find attractive. Just the mere fact that she is a woman would do it.
But his dude? Really?
Not nan Black woman? Not nan?
Not the pretty high yella gals we always see on T.V. even? I mean most white dudes I know would have told me that they don't like the "darkies", but Beyonce, Halle Berry or Rihanna? They might not take them home to maw-maw or paw-paw, but they would still hit it.
So what was he really saying?
I mean look at the pictures I posted...How could ANY man not find these women attractive?