Thursday, July 5, 2012
Women...Can't live without them...Can't get caught killing them
They tell me that they are done with them. Now mind you these are all Black dudes that are telling me this.
They tell me that they still love Black women; they just don't want a relationship with one.
They are tired of the drama ass drama.
Most of them have babies-mamas that are full of shit; a couple have just been in a bad relationships.
Now I have been married to a Black woman for 14 years. She gets on my nerves, but I love her.
And from my vast variety of experience I have come to the conclusion that all women are basically the same. They do the same shit..but in different ways. The only difference is cultural.
All women have three basic needs...
1. They need to be constantly reminded that they are the only woman in your life.
2. They constantly need to have all of your undivided attention.
3. They have to feel as if their needs and desires are important to you.
If you do all these things no matter what the ethnic background of the woman, she will be satisfied.
She will still get on your last damn nerve, but you won't want to kill her in unspeakable; but very satisfying ways.
As for my guys....they all have the same problem with Black women..
They can't stand the attitude...the constant nagging...the always got to be right bullshit..the "I don't need a man" and I am going to do what the fuck I want to do..you can't tell me shit...I pay my own bills..etc etc..
They say they are tired of trying to be a good man but constantly getting kicked to the curb for the 40 something going on 21 year old thug.
They are tired of all the materialistic bullshit.
I get on my knees every morning thanking God that I don't have a damn babies mama. And that I am no longer in the dating scene. My wife is crazy and she tests my patience on the regular...but all in all she is a good woman.
So what say you, my faithful readers?
Are my guys wrong or do they have a right to explore other options?