Friday, June 14, 2013

Your EX is just that..Your EX

This morning on my way to work, I heard some shit that got me to thinking.

Question....

If you and your significant other broke it off...is it cool for your friends to still be cool with them or even hook up with them?

In my opinion..yes it is cool. And here is why I think so.

1. The person is your EX. That means that you have no power on who they choose to hang or be with.
2. The person is your ex for a reason. You obviously want nothing else to do with them, so why hate on the fact that someone else does?
3. If your friends have seen what you went through with your ex and they want to get a taste of it too..then a hard head makes a soft ass.
4. Just because you and your ex didn't work out..why hate on the fact that they might hit it off with someone they knew just as long as they have known you? They could have been in the books all along and you were just in the way.
5. And last but not least..Get over it.

Now the only problem with this is, is if your ex is your ex because of your friends.....then maybe you need to reevaluate your "friends".

In my opinion jealousy is a wasted emotion. It makes no sense to be jealous of anyone. 9 times out of 10, the person that you are jealous of probably could give a fuck whether you are jealous of them or not.
So why waste your time thinking about what someone is doing, who they are doing, what they are wearing,  what they are driving or where they are living? Again...9 times out of 10 their lives ain't as Cadillac as you think it is. They are probably just as fucked up as you are.

So in my opinion if your ex ends up getting with or staying friends with some of your partners...then don't hate...congratulate.

There is a major shortage of Love in this world as it is.

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