Friday, June 14, 2013
Your EX is just that..Your EX
If you and your significant other broke it off...is it cool for your friends to still be cool with them or even hook up with them?
In my opinion..yes it is cool. And here is why I think so.
EX. That means that you have no power on who they choose to hang or be with.
2. The person is your ex for a reason. You obviously want nothing else to do with them, so why hate on the fact that someone else does?
3. If your friends have seen what you went through with your ex and they want to get a taste of it too..then a hard head makes a soft ass.
4. Just because you and your ex didn't work out..why hate on the fact that they might hit it off with someone they knew just as long as they have known you? They could have been in the books all along and you were just in the way.
Now the only problem with this is, is if your ex is your ex because of your friends.....then maybe you need to reevaluate your "friends".
In my opinion jealousy is a wasted emotion. It makes no sense to be jealous of anyone. 9 times out of 10, the person that you are jealous of probably could give a fuck whether you are jealous of them or not.
So why waste your time thinking about what someone is doing, who they are doing, what they are wearing, what they are driving or where they are living? Again...9 times out of 10 their lives ain't as Cadillac as you think it is. They are probably just as fucked up as you are.
There is a major shortage of Love in this world as it is.